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April 29, 2013

Just.

Happy Monday afternoon everybody!  I hope your week is off to a great start! <3  It’s warm and sunny here today which certainly makes Monday easier to get through 😀

Today I want to talk about the word “just”.

I remember reading an article somewhere in the past year that was talking about writing, and the words that writers should remove from their writing vocabulary.

Just was one of those words.  I remember at the time thinking, they are right.  Just (as an adverb) is rarely necessary, every sentence I could think of that used the word just, worked just as well without it.  Since then I’ve tried to be careful about my use of the word in my writing, and have found myself deleting it more that I would have thought.

Even though I’ve tried my best to delete the word from my written word I still say it frequently when I speak, and that is something I want to change.

Just can be used as an adjective or an adverb.  For the purpose of this post I’m speaking only about “just” as an adverb.  In case you have tossed your grammar definitions out of the window, and adverb is is a word that changes or qualifies the meaning of a verb, adjective, another adverb etc.

In this context, “Just” can mean:

  1. exactly ( ex. This is just why I don’t trust you!)
  2. a moment before (ex. She arrived just in time for the movie to begin.)
  3. barely (ex. He hit the tennis ball just out of bounds.)
  4. actually; really (ex. It is just a beautiful day!)
  5. only or merely (ex. I can do 30 push-ups but they are just from my knees.)

Just.

It’s the best word I think think of to use to diminish your accomplishments.  I do it all of the time.  On Saturday after my class we were talking about upcoming classes and someone asked if there would be a class on the long weekend in May.  I said that there would be, even though I should be taking the day off because I’m running in the Bluenose Marathon the next morning.  Someone asked me what distance I was running, I replied, “Just the 10k.”

Sure, the 10K is one of the shorter distances in that race (you can choose 5K, 10K, 1/2 or Full Marathon), but it’s still 10 flipping kilometres.

I always downgrade my running, like I need to issue a disclaimer or something.  Last year I said something about the Valley Harvest Marathon after I had run and someone said, “Wow!  You ran in it?” I replied that yes I had, but just the 5k.”

Just.  Like running a 5K in under 30 minutes is something that everyone can do.  Like it’s sure a terrible accomplishment that I have to downgrade myself.

It’s true, I’m not a fast runner, but when I can only run once maybe twice a week 4 or 5 months of the year I can hardly expect to be as fast as my friends who run 3 or 4 times/week all year round.

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FYI- I had just eaten a green candy, my tongue isn’t usually that colour 😉

It’s true, I tend to stick to shorter distance races, but that is mostly because I can run them without putting in hours and hours of training runs to prepare.  Those shorter races are still longer than the races most people will run – because most people won’t run any.

There is another place where I tend to “just” it up.

My job.

“Are you a personal trainer?” “No, I’m just a fitness instructor.”

“You are a writer?” “No, I am just blogger”

“Do you contribute anything positive to society?” “No, I mostly just belittle my career and accomplishments.”

Okay, so that last one didn’t really happen, but every time I throw the word “just” in there that’s what I’m doing.  And I KNOW I’m not alone.  I know many of you do it too!  So let’s make a promise to ourselves right now, that we will make a conscious effort to ditch the just and take pride in our accomplishments.

Yes, I’m running in the Bluenose Marathon.  No, I’m not running the longest distance but I am running all the same.

Yes, in fact I AM a writer.  I may not have any published books but I get paid to write, therefore (good or bad) I am a writer.

No I’m not a personal trainer, but that is my choice.  I prefer teaching in a group setting, there is nothing wrong with that.

Stop belittling yourself and the things you do, ditch “just”.

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Comments

  1. Charissa says

    April 29, 2013 at 3:42 pm

    I heart this post so much. I tend to do that too…and we don’t NEED to! Whatever we do is who we are. (You write. You are a writer!) These words of truth are something I want to speak over myself more…thank you for this GREAT reminder!

    • Suzi says

      April 29, 2013 at 4:09 pm

      Thank you! I think it is something we all need to do, especially when we are struggling with something!

  2. Tiff @ Love, Sweat, & Beers says

    April 29, 2013 at 8:04 pm

    This post is “just” awesome. 😉 So true!

    • Suzi says

      April 29, 2013 at 10:54 pm

      Haha we’ll allow that just 😉

  3. Jodie says

    April 30, 2013 at 9:23 am

    I’m so glad this post came into my inbox as it’s really made me think. Great job!

  4. Denise Taylor says

    April 30, 2013 at 6:38 pm

    So true. I frequently “just” my accomplishments or put disclaimers on them. I need to stop that.

  5. Sandy says

    May 2, 2013 at 3:28 pm

    You *just* rock! Great post. Hopefully we can all be a little more cautious of the way we speak and the words we use and we can be proud of our accomplishments.

    I’m missing class/exercise this week. I’m getting over the plague. Hope to see you next week.

  6. Kim says

    May 6, 2013 at 1:53 pm

    I just found you through Lindsay’s Bean Bytes.
    (oops – there’s that word!)
    I love this post!!!
    I do the same thing with that word – constantly make light of what I do by adding the just.
    I’m going to work on taking it out of my vocab!!

    • Suzi says

      May 6, 2013 at 2:10 pm

      Thank you! <3

  7. Amy says

    May 6, 2013 at 4:07 pm

    Thank you so much for this post! I too find that I “just” myself and my accomplishments all the time. It may not be something where I can change my manner of thinking so easily but I can work on my manner of expression. It’s nice to not be alone with this problem too.

    • Suzi says

      May 6, 2013 at 4:11 pm

      I think it’s an under realized epidemic of sorts. Diminishing ones accomplishments is only one step from diminishing oneself as a human. It’s one thing to not want to come across as bragging, it’s something else entirely to act as though what you can do is “nothing” especially when it’s something many, many others are unable to do. By insulting ourselves we’re almost insulting others if that makes sense (it does in my head 😉 ) when we discount what we can do that they cannot.

      THank you for your comment and good luck re-adjusting your thinking/manner of expression!

  8. Nicki says

    May 7, 2013 at 11:36 am

    Just is like “only” and I was told many times this past weekend to remove it from my vocabulary. I kept saying I am only running the half marathon. Last year I ran the full so to me this is an only. I ran 13.1 miles. Doesn’t matter I didn’t run 26.2. I did it!

    • Suzi says

      May 7, 2013 at 1:30 pm

      You’re totally right, I think I do that too – another word I’ll have to be wary of!

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